Congratulations! You've landed the job! Now you are
faced with the delicate challenge of resigning from your
current employer without burning bridges, and saying
good-bye to friends and colleagues.
Your recruiter will be glad to help you draft your
resignation letter. Then, you will make an appointment
with your manager to respectfully explain your decision.
Your manager needs to hear that your decision is firm
and final, and that you are committed to your new
employer. Express appreciation for the opportunities
that your former employer has given you.
Be careful not to get lured into any discussions other
than your resignation, such as how your employer wants
to handle your final weeks or the transition of your
current responsibilities and projects.
In today's competitive market,
you are more likely than not to
receive a counter-offer. While
counter-offers may be tempting
and even flattering, there can
be pitfalls that you need to be
aware of.
Ask yourself these questions:
Will your loyalty always
be in question?
If there are future
cutbacks, will you be the
first to go because of
concerns about your loyalty?
If you accept the
counter-offer for more
money, are you just giving
your employer the time they
need to locate and select
your replacement?
Will your career track
remain blocked if you accept
it?
Will your responsibilities
be expanded?
Will you have to report to
a person you don't respect?
Will you receive next
year's raise or bonus early?
Is the counter-offer a
ploy to avoid a short-term
inconvenience by your
employer?
What are your realistic
chances for promotions now
that you have considered
leaving?
Where is the money for the
counter-offer coming from?
Is it your next raise?
Will the circumstances
that now cause you to
consider a change, repeat
themselves in the future?