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Communicating in Today's Workplace
The face of the workplace is changing: More women, more
ethnic minorities, and more immigrants are entering the work
force. As a result, the workplace is increasingly
multicultural. Now, think about what you’ve read about
today’s job market: Employers look for job candidates who
have good communication and interpersonal skills and are
team players. Those skills are increasingly important as the
American work force expands to include a wide variety of
cultures.
Culture is a set of learned attitudes, behaviors, and the
other things that comprise a way of life. Although you’ll
share your organization’s culture with your co-workers, it’s
unlikely that you’ll share your personal culture with all
your co-workers. You’ll find many “ways of life” represented
in the workplace. Depending on your experience with and
exposure to different cultures, your “comfort zone” with
different groups can expand or contract.
The challenge to today’s employer is to ensure that its work
force’s diversity is a source of strength, not one of
conflict. Recognize, however, that it is not the sole
responsibility of the employer to see that goal achieved;
all employees, including you, share in that responsibility.
Communication Styles
Mis-communication is a major source of intercultural
discomfort and conflict. Communication—verbal, written, and
nonverbal—goes beyond what’s said, written, or expressed.
The process of communicating differs among cultures: It’s
how
it’s said (or written or expressed), when it’s said,
and why it’s said. These things comprise one’s
communication style. Miscommunication can (and often does)
result when an individual’s style of communicating differs
from that of another person. In today’s workplace, you can
bet that, at some point, you’ll deal with a co-worker whose
communication style differs from yours. Learning how to
communicate among cultures is a necessary ability no matter
what type of career field you enter.
What’s your communication style? Do you communicate in a
linear manner, moving in a straight line to your point? Or,
are you more apt to use a spiral style in your
communications, circling around your subject in tighter and
tighter loops until you get to your point? Neither style is
right or wrong, but the “spiral communicator” may perceive
the “linear communicator” as abrupt or rude. The linear
communicator might think the spiral communicator is
deceptive or indecisive. In each case, there’s been a
misunderstanding and misinterpretation.
Some other areas where there commonly are differences in
style include:
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Courtesy:
Greeting styles differ among cultures, for example, as
do ways of discussing problems or conflicts.
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Phasing:
One example of differences in phasing is when one deems
it an “appropriate time” for a discussion. Lead-ins to
business talk are another example of where differences
exist.
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Objectivity:
Argument styles are an example of objectivity
differences. In some cultures, arguing in an impersonal
manner is the accepted “norm”; in others, the argument
style is emotional. Specificity: Is your thinking
focused on the immediate, or are you focused on the long
term? That’s one example of specificity differences.
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Assertiveness:
There are varying levels of assertiveness that are
deemed acceptable. For example, one culture’s
assertiveness level might lean toward reticence while
another tends toward more forwardness in communication.
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Candor:
There are also different levels of candor. For example,
some cultures value “telling it like it is” while others
value preserving harmony.
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Simplicity:
Do you present information in simple language, or are
your sentences more complex?
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Accent:
Accents vary greatly—even within the same language!
Don’t allow someone’s accent to be an excuse for making
assumptions about that person.
Keep in mind that when you’re unfamiliar with another
culture, or when you don’t recognize that there’s no “one
way” of doing things, it’s easy to jump to the wrong
conclusions or create a conflict through misunderstanding.
By recognizing that there are different styles, you’ll take
a big step toward effective communication.
Gateways to Effective Intercultural Communication
Effective intercultural communication requires more than
simply recognizing differences; it requires you to respect
and know how to deal with those differences. Intercultural
communication often is not easy (just take a look at the
evening news! It’s a showcase of miscommunication between
countries and their cultures.), but there are “gateways” to
effective intercultural communication.
These gateways are:
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Written, verbal, and nonverbal communication skills;
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Respect for differences;
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Tolerance for ambiguity;
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Flexibility;
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Suspension of assumptions and judgments;
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Willingness to see other person’s point of view;
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Time and practice.
These gateways can help you strengthen your ability to
understand and to be understood. In the end, however, it’s
up to you—the gateways are effective only if you’re
willing to go through them.
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