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The pros and cons of dressing sexy
at work.
It seems like,
everywhere you turn these days, the media is full of
images that suggest sexy dress is acceptable for the
workplace. Plunging necklines, bare backs, and
micro-minis are the norm on television shows like
Ally McBeal and Sex and the City. And now
that Julia Roberts has won a Golden Globe for her busty
performance in Erin Brockovich, it's any HR
professional's guess what will turn up at the office
next.
When it comes to
provocative dress in the workplace, the primary offenders
are women. Seductive dressing errors stem from a misguided
selection of clothing, shoes, and accessories--as well as a
fundamental misunderstanding of appropriate professional
attire.
While Erin Brockovich used
sexy dress to her advantage, businesswomen who dress to
excess can expect to pay a heavy social price. Relying on
physical attributes instead of your brains can profoundly
change the way fellow employees feel about and interact with
you. Furthermore, if you always dress inappropriately in the
workplace, you may cause colleagues to jump to conclusions
about your character. Co-workers could very well assume that
a woman who relies on her body is not focused on work, not a
team player, uneducated, using her sexuality to gain power.
Anyway you look at it, flaunting your figure will ultimately
sabotage your credibility at office.
It's naive to think that the
way you dress at work--or anywhere else--isn't significant
to how others view you. The next time you meet a new person,
pay attention to how you form an impression about them.
Visual information helps us to fill in the blanks regarding
the way a person perceives themselves, situations, or
events.
Another interesting method
of wardrobe study is through movies and television. For
instance, the way an actress is styled reinforces
personality traits in her character. An example is Carrie,
played by Sarah Jessica Parker, on Sex and the City.
She's a New York columnist who writes about, well, sex and
the city. Her profession calls for her to wear designer
outfits and accessories because she moves in the trendiest
circles in Manhattan. In order for her to get the scoop,
she's got to look the part. Carrie's dress is sexy,
revealing, sassy, and provocative--just like her columns.
But this is pure fantasy,
not reality. Don't take your styling cues from television or
film because the wardrobe choices are exaggerated whenever
creative license is involved. Instead, follow these 10
simple guidelines to ensure you are building a wardrobe
filled with visual credibility and professional style.
1.
Hair
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Yes: |
Off the face, clean, conditioned, and sleek. |
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No: |
Teased, over-accessorized (no
chip clips), over-processed, or extensive roots. |
2.
Make-Up
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Yes: |
Clean, simple, daytime natural or neutral makeup. |
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No: |
Black eyeliner, bold colors
(blues, greens), and evening lipsticks such as red,
hot pink, and burgundy. |
3.
Earrings
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Yes: |
Small, simple, chic, and no larger than a dime. |
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No: |
Hoops, multiple earrings (more than two), gimmicky
or novelty earrings. |
4.
Necklace
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Yes: |
Delicate, chic, and simple. |
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No: |
Religious symbols, thick or
long chains, chokers, or more than one necklace. |
5.
Wristwatch
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Yes: |
Elegant and sleek. |
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No: |
Too sporty, flashy (diamonds), trendy, or big. |
6.
Tops
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Yes: |
Tops should have at least one inch of room between
body and fabric, a nude color bra for light fabrics,
and should hit the top of your pants or skirt. |
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No: |
Pulling, pinching, bra-revealing snugness, no bra,
sheer fabrics, beads or distracting patterns,
revealing your stomach, breasts, back, or shoulders. |
7.
Skirts
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Yes: |
Skirts two inches below or above the knee. |
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No: |
No flowing, floral, romantic, or see-through
fabrics. |
8.
Pants
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Yes: |
One
inch of room between skin and fabric, neutral
colors. |
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No: |
Capri pants, patterns, sheer
fabrics, too tight, hip huggers, bright colors,
athletic wear. |
9.
Dresses
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Yes: |
One inch between skin and fabric, length to about
two inches from knee. |
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No: |
Brightly colored or patterned, sheer fabric, and
halter dresses. |
10.
Shoes
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Yes: |
Two-inch heels or lower, closed toe, sling backs. |
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No: |
Sandals, platforms, evening or
open toe, bright colors or patterns, sneakers. |
Make certain that your
clothing choices properly reflect the event or situation you
are about to attend.
The name of the game in
business is to be noticed for your abilities--not your
push-up bras, belly rings, or tight skirts. No matter what
your intention, styling yourself in an overtly sexual manner
robs you of credibility. And remember, you don't have to
give up a seductive look altogether: You can save your sexy
attire for the evenings, weekends, and holidays. You'll be
happy expressing yourself through dress the way you like and
your co-workers won't take offense.
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