Are you locked into a job
that you can't stand?
By Valerie Young
Bill, a 28-year-old Web developer and
programmer, is stuck in a job he no longer enjoys.
He hates sitting in front of a monitor all day,
worrying how the stress of corporate life will
tragically shorten his life. "I know," Bill admits,
"I am trading money for health and happiness." He
secretly dreams of being his own boss: "This sounds
crazy, but I want to be a locksmith or somebody who
works with their hands and does not sit in a chair
between four walls all day."
So what's stopping him? Ignorance,
money fears, and time. The solution to
overcoming all three of these common
"dream busters" is startlingly simple:
become more informed. The unknown can be
frightening. The more you know, the less
there is to fear. And, thanks to the
Internet, becoming an informed person
takes virtually no time at all.
Information, much like truth, is exactly
what Bill needs to set himself free.
Look Within
The first place any dreamer should look
for answers is in the mirror. Despite
being desperately unhappy in the
computer field, Bill is reluctant to
change. "Traditionally, a locksmith is
not a respected position and the money
may not be that great. When I tell
people I am a programmer," he says, "I
see something in their eyes that says I
am smart."
Everyone has a personal definition of
success. For Bill, earning a certain
amount of money and being seen as
intelligent are clearly in the mix. But,
to a growing number of people, success
means enjoying more control over their
lives. When Working Woman
magazine asked women business owners why
they became entrepreneurs, the number
one reason was freedom and flexibility,
not money. For many, true success equals
happiness. In a recent survey conducted
by the National Association of Colleges
and Employers, new college grads said
that the most important factor in a job
is enjoying what you do ("making lots of
money" ranked a distant ninth).
Looking within will inevitably bring
Bill and his dream to a fork in the
road. If holding fast to some socially
contrived image of being "smart" is
important--and he is willing to pay the
price for this shallow validation--then
Bill should stay put. Otherwise, he
really needs to continue his quest for
information.
Look to Others
Perhaps the best information about any
line of work comes from those who are
already doing it. Most people are more
than willing to talk about their jobs.
Walter Kulas, of BMT Lock and Key in
Massachusetts, certainly was. I selected
Walter's business at random from my
local yellow pages. Despite catching him
in the middle of a job, Walter said that
he and the other locksmiths would be
only too happy to talk to someone who
wanted to know more about the work they
do. But if, after talking to all the
locksmiths he can find, there are still
holes in Bill's information bucket, he
still has a vast resource to tap.
Look It Up
Bill complains of being constantly caught
between a clock and a hard place. "I was
going to take a vacation once," he
laments. "My plan was to quit it all for
a week. Walk out of my house with my
clothes and spend the next seven days
just being a bum." Wandering the streets
for a week may be one option, but think
how much more ground Bill could cover
if, instead, he spent a single hour
roaming the information highway.
It only took me an hour to discover
that, despite any reservations Bill
might have on the IQ issue, today's
locksmiths have to be pretty smart. The
Associated Locksmiths of America
(aloa.org) tells prospective members
that installing electric locks, alarms,
access control systems, and surveillance
devices requires electrical and
electronics knowledge and specialized
mechanical and mathematical skills.
Any further qualms Bill may have about
joining a group of stereotypical
"blue-collar grunts" would be quickly
put to rest by reading I Am a
Locksmith at
thenationallocksmith.com Web site. In
it, Marc Goldberg explains that his
profession isn't all nuts and bolts--a
locksmith is equal parts businessman,
diplomat, and psychologist.
The U.S. Department of Labor's
Occupational Outlook Handbook
predicts no slowdown in the locksmith
and security field through 2008. Perhaps
less encouraging for Bill, however, is
the Bureau of Labor Statistics wage
database. It estimates that locksmiths
earn, on average, $26,640 a
year--presumably far less than Bill
pulls down as a programmer.
But, yet again, good information comes
to the rescue. If Bill consults national
job postings at the New York Association
of In-House Locksmiths, he'll see that a
job in California can bring in as much
as $60k. Self-employed locksmiths earn
more as well. If big money is still his
benchmark, Bill should think like a true
entrepreneur and calculate how many
freelance programming projects it would
take to bump up his earnings.
A mere hour of gathering data and
Bill's crazy dream suddenly doesn't seem
so crazy. What is crazy is not
trying to make your dreams come true.
Looking for information from within,
from others, and from the Web may be key
to unlocking any dream.
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